More educated people will instantly pick up the downside part of its meaning, while less educated or mannered people will not. And I believe this is what happened with the youth today.

Teenages are in their summit of physical condition for sex. They thirst for exploring the realm of sex, thus the term ‘animal sex’ probably is the way teenages like the most to express their desire of sex. Those words come into play as activators to make ’sex’ animal and more exciting, that’s why they are so haunted by those words.

You’ll see the much less of these behaviours among higher educated people (at least educated in respect to this area).

The society has determined the meaning of these words (either from movie, or daily communications, it’s a historic development), and the reason behind is complicated. But we can’t change it easily. The best way is still through education.

Anyway, understand this, when kids say those words, they don’t perceive their meaning as the way we/you do. They sound only sexy to them rather than offending, while we educated people, sense differently.

A year ago or so, I observed at one of our local WalMart a kid calling his girl friend a b….h. I had both my children with me and we were standing in the next lane. As the conversation continued, he became even more aggressive. As it turns out, she wanted to break up with him an he was having a fit. He was threatening her as she hid behind one of her girl friends. He kept yelling, “Come here, you f…..g b…h.” I finally moved myself to that side and told that young teenage girl that she does not need to be talked to that way or be treated any where near this kind of behavior. I told the young man that he was way out of line and he needs to get a hold of himself. I flagged down a security person and as the girls started to leave. Once the security person was there trying to talk to this teenage boy, he fell apart and started crying and sobbing.

His aggression, by calling his girl friend all kinds of nasty names, turns out, was his own insecurity and fear of loosing her. He needs to go back and be taught how to keep someone by treating them with respect and care. This sort of thing happens way to often and it is sad.