I wasn’t going to blog about Katie Fairchild (yngathrrt) on my blog, but I’m not about to walk on eggshells and allow people to attack me and not respond in fear Katie Fairchild (yngathrrt) will gather more ammunition for her anti Rose DesRochers blog that can be found via Google if you simply search Rose DesRochers. She comes up within the first page results with a post titled “Rose DesRochers is Funny, Strange and Bizarre.”
For the last year and a half, yes I said year and a half – I have sat by quietly while this woman has posted blog post after blog post about me.
If you Google Rose DesRochers both her blogs CyberStalkers and Yngathrrt.blogspot both come up. (I refuse to link to either blog)
She even stated I hacked her sitemeter. Geez, the woman had her sitemeter set to public, but she cannot comprehend that.
Katie Fairchild feels that she has been victimized by me and is out for blood. I just can’t understand how someone can be so vindictive and set out to ruin someone’s life without any regards to that person’s feelings or the damage it is doing to that person’s family.
Yngathrrt (Katie Fairchild) joined my writing community when she was trying to publish a book of her mother’s poetry. At this time I was being harassed by a man and his wife. I’m not going to get into all that here on this blog as the wife is a frequent reader of this blog and I believe in giving people a second chance.
Anyhow, Katie Fairchild stated that she did not want to be associated with Today’s Woman Writing Community and requested her account be deleted, but all the while she was befriending the wife of the man harassing my family and I.
The abuse from this man and his wife have stopped. We have gone our separate ways and I hold no ill feelings towards him or his wife, yet Katie Fairchild- yngathrrt (CyberStalkers) continues her abuse.
I suspect she is the one who sent my photo to a site for dating cheaters. (Don’t ask me why) and I suspect it was her that emailed Paws INC, so they would revoke my use of Garfield.
She has contacted members of my community and follows me around the net and emails anyone I have a dispute with.
I think that she has my name set up for Google Alerts.
Her blog is supposed to be about trolls, flame wars and cyberstalkers yet it is six months of her blogging about me. The site is nothing, but an Anti Rose DesRochers blog.
It is sad that a fifty thee year old woman has nothing more meaningful in her life then to live the past year and half of her life blogging about me, Googling ‘Rose DesRochers’ and joining communities that I join.
Can you imagine someone holding a grudge for a year and a half? Her New Years resolution was to better organize her time and schedule so she could fit in more writing projects. I guess she meant writing all about Rose DesRochers.
I openly admit that I said some things in anger to Katie Fairchild that I wish I could take back, but I cannot. I was emotionally upset at the time and lost my temper.
I bet everyone of you can admit to saying things you regret and wish you could take them back.
Katie Fairchild, if I’ve ever hurt you by things, I’ve said out of haste and anger, I ask for your forgiveness. I ask you to drop the grudge you hold and move past the anger and just forgive. Please show me that you are capable of doing this or is this going to go on for another year and a half?
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7 responses so far ↓
Wrote: Jun 18, 2007 at 9:08 pm
Hi Rose,
The reason I would like to comment here is because I have been a member of Todays Woman since 2005; I believe. Before I joined Todays Woman, I made a search of the other writing communities. On the Internet I found a husband and wife team, who had nothing-good things to say about Rose. After some further research, I chose the site, which I felt had integrity, the most to offer and that was Todays Woman.
The best way to get to know a person is to be around them for a considerable amount of time. I have found Rose to be an extremely kind and loving person. I consider myself a good judge of character and someone who knows her own mind and not easily led. Rose is who I know her to be; caring, loving, respectful and honest. She is someone who is responsible for her actions and will take the effort to apologize if she needs to. There have been times when some of us at Todays Woman, have wanted to make replies in defense of Rose and she has asked us not to.
What Rose has had to deal with, has been unbelievably harsh and cruel. I wonder if I would have been as gracefully as she has. I have also seen Rose very down and feeling extremely overwhelmed at these people who want to take her down.
I am not saying this because Rose asked me to, it is my wish to speak up for Rose. Katie, Rose has handed you an olive branch. Which will you choose peace or continue on with your attacks? I feel you would gain a great amount of respect by taking the higher ground, so how about it?
Merriam
Wrote: Jun 18, 2007 at 9:54 pm
Rose, I think you are a fine person and certainly you and Shawn have been a termendous blessing to me. I sincerely hope that Katie will find some way to make peace in her own heart. She is truly hurting herself even worse by continuing on with this.
Wrote: Jun 20, 2007 at 1:11 am
Thank you everyone. Well as Merriam said I did hand her an Olive branch. I just hope she doesn’t hit me with it.
What do you say Katie? Will you accept my gesture of peace?
Wrote: Jun 20, 2007 at 8:25 pm
Life’s too short to get caught in drama. Hopefully all will set down.
Wrote: Jun 21, 2007 at 12:45 pm
Teena, well I had hoped it would, but she is not wishing to. In facts her words are.
Katie said, “Now Rose, concerning your apology. I don’t think so and will blog more about that when I have the time. Your apology did not come across as sincere at all. Especially since I have seen what has been written in other places. You need to understand that my blogs are to warn people before they get hurt or caught up in your drama. Stop the drama and pity parties I will stop the blogs.”
Katie said, “I am sorry you do not agree with what I do, and would not do so if you would change your ways and treatment of others. “
Wrote: Jun 21, 2007 at 5:10 pm
Rose,
Katie, I had hoped you would stop the attacks and cruelty, which Rose has to put up with from you. Rose being the “Hero” and she has taken the emotional risk of reaching out to you with the goal of peace with you.
I also feel that you are using the “Rose isn’t sincere” justification, so you can continue with your obsessive, dysfunctional and victim stance behavior because you choose to keep the fire going.
Rose is not the problem here, because you are getting something out this type of behavior. As long as you blame Rose, then you don’t have to be responsible for your behavior.
So Rose, keep your chin up, because you have a lot to offer with your writing community, which is flourishing. You also have a lot to give to others at Todays Women and I thank you for being my friend. I feel you are an example as the administrator by the caring way you encourage each one of us there. Thanks from the bottom of my heart.
Your Friend,
Merriam
Wrote: Jul 11, 2007 at 12:37 am
Merriam, Err, I was hoping she would just back off and cut me some slack. Instead of always putting me down and pointing out my short comings, she needs to open her eyes and see all my good qualities which out number my bad. Like you said, she needs to stop the blaming game and be responsible for her own behavior.