Obsessive vindictive people drive me up the wall. What makes people so vindictive and hate filled? What happens when someone believes that they’ve been victimized and can not accept responsibility for their own actions?
They seek revenge on the person who pointed out their faults. (Lucky me!) Seesh, learn to accept responsibility for your actions, own up to your mistakes and move on.
Quit harping and whining about it and don’t think you can get even. You did it, be it was a mistake or not! Admit it and move on. Life is to short to go harping about it. There is never going to be peace with vindictive people. Where do all these vindictive little minded obsessive people come from? Did a ship land on earth somewhere?
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Larry
// May 22, 2007 at 9:31 am
You can bet your last penny that the person/blogger to whom you refer to in this post will twist it as proof of your alleged faults Rose. In their warped world, getting even means they “win” even though the situation was likely never one of winning or losing.
I’m with you on people who have no personal accountability for their actions.
Everyone makes mistakes. It’s how we learn. Taking revenge on another is just not acceptable in my opinion. Revenge just feeds upon itself and the truth hurts often.
As my mother used to say, “as long as you keep your own doorstep clean, don’t worry how clean someone else’s doorstep may be. That’s their problem, not yours.”
Viola Jaynes
// May 22, 2007 at 3:29 pm
Sad that you all are still having to deal with people that are so unhappy that they are wanting to make other people’s lives unhappy.
Vindictiveness, in my opinion is nothing but fear and insecurity. It takes strength to be honest with yourself and work on that instead of projecting anger on other people. Hang in there Rose, you all are great!
Steve Reichard
// May 22, 2007 at 5:01 pm
I am sorry about these people who can’t own up to their mistakes and blame you that’s just plain wrong and they need a trip to Moron Mountain to join the other idiots
GrimJesta
// May 25, 2007 at 1:29 am
I thought this article summed it up pretty well. I always felt that the new generation should be called “generation E”… as in Excuses.
-=Grim=-
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