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		<title>By: Adam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2007 19:41:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is really an important issue of concern as a father to a son and a daughter. 

In reply to some guys who commented that there was casual sex during our time too. I agree, but it was bad then as it is now. I know of some guys in Univ. who caught STD after casual one night stands.  There might be some who caught the HIV virus too but too scared to reveal it. 

We should get the message across that casual sex is WRONG - full stop.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is really an important issue of concern as a father to a son and a daughter. </p>
<p>In reply to some guys who commented that there was casual sex during our time too. I agree, but it was bad then as it is now. I know of some guys in Univ. who caught STD after casual one night stands.  There might be some who caught the HIV virus too but too scared to reveal it. </p>
<p>We should get the message across that casual sex is WRONG &#8211; full stop.</p>
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		<title>By: Peri</title>
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		<dc:creator>Peri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Mar 2007 12:33:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I too am disturbed not by the fact that it is happening, but that it is happening so casually, without any importance being attached to it.  Dating used to be fun.  The thrill of being asked out, deciding what to wear, sitting in the movie theatre beside the guy you&#039;ve been crushing on, talking about it with your friends later, finding out that you really do like each other, having a boyfriend...these were things that meant you were moving out of your childhood.  It was a chance to experience these thoughts, feelings and emotions for the first time.

Young teens may be armed with all the technical sexual knowledge they need but only time and experience will give them the mental tools they will need to assess their self-worth and make it possible for them to have a truly intimate relationship with another person.  The consequences of casual sex at too early an age will have a longer reach than these children can realize, and I don&#039;t mean pregnancy or disease.  If there is no value placed on a sexual encounter what exactly is it that they WILL value in their relationships with others?  What will they value about themselves?

A body physically ready and capable of having sex doesn&#039;t recessarily have the equivilant mental and emotional maturity.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I too am disturbed not by the fact that it is happening, but that it is happening so casually, without any importance being attached to it.  Dating used to be fun.  The thrill of being asked out, deciding what to wear, sitting in the movie theatre beside the guy you&#8217;ve been crushing on, talking about it with your friends later, finding out that you really do like each other, having a boyfriend&#8230;these were things that meant you were moving out of your childhood.  It was a chance to experience these thoughts, feelings and emotions for the first time.</p>
<p>Young teens may be armed with all the technical sexual knowledge they need but only time and experience will give them the mental tools they will need to assess their self-worth and make it possible for them to have a truly intimate relationship with another person.  The consequences of casual sex at too early an age will have a longer reach than these children can realize, and I don&#8217;t mean pregnancy or disease.  If there is no value placed on a sexual encounter what exactly is it that they WILL value in their relationships with others?  What will they value about themselves?</p>
<p>A body physically ready and capable of having sex doesn&#8217;t recessarily have the equivilant mental and emotional maturity.</p>
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		<title>By: Carma Dutra</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carma Dutra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Mar 2007 04:28:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I believe and know that movies, TV and print media help to set the standard for sexual behavior in todays&#039; world.  No doubt.  

One commercial I totally dislike is about herpes.  It shows a couple discussing the fact that one of them has herpes and as long as they take the perscribed medicine and/or use a condom, they are not putting their partner at risk.  Hello?

Herpes is an incurable disease and instead of impressing the seriousness of it,  TV passes it off as if everything is fine.  And people want to know why kids are confused.

When I was a teen, kids who participated in casual sex were not  well respected.  The difference between then and now are  morals and respect.  Where have they gone?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe and know that movies, TV and print media help to set the standard for sexual behavior in todays&#8217; world.  No doubt.  </p>
<p>One commercial I totally dislike is about herpes.  It shows a couple discussing the fact that one of them has herpes and as long as they take the perscribed medicine and/or use a condom, they are not putting their partner at risk.  Hello?</p>
<p>Herpes is an incurable disease and instead of impressing the seriousness of it,  TV passes it off as if everything is fine.  And people want to know why kids are confused.</p>
<p>When I was a teen, kids who participated in casual sex were not  well respected.  The difference between then and now are  morals and respect.  Where have they gone?</p>
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		<title>By: Jose</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Mar 2007 06:06:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m of the opinion that teen age sexual activity is more prevalent today than it was 27 years ago when I was a teenager.  Yes, teens were sexually active then, and teen pregnancy was a well publicized issue.  But now, teenagers are much more matter of fact about their sexual activity, and it less and less about a boyfriend/girlfriend interaction.

Sexuality within this society was at one point a more private and taboo issue (it is still taboo today), one not in the public eye.  As the society aged and was exposed to an ever increasing flow of information, its sexual activity also increased, and the age of sexually active participants decreased.  Just reflect on the prevailing attitudes about sexuality in our society during the passing of each decade from the 1950&#039;s to today.

I also believe that sexual activity has deep and abiding impact on the the human psyche, and the casualness with which sexuality is treated ingnores this impact.  But the impact is there nevertheless.

I know someone who gave into peer pressure to engage in teenage sexual activity.  Now, she is not expected to see her 40th birthday due to complications brougth on by early sexual activity, STDs and Cervical cancer.  So yes, it can have a damaging effect. :cry:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m of the opinion that teen age sexual activity is more prevalent today than it was 27 years ago when I was a teenager.  Yes, teens were sexually active then, and teen pregnancy was a well publicized issue.  But now, teenagers are much more matter of fact about their sexual activity, and it less and less about a boyfriend/girlfriend interaction.</p>
<p>Sexuality within this society was at one point a more private and taboo issue (it is still taboo today), one not in the public eye.  As the society aged and was exposed to an ever increasing flow of information, its sexual activity also increased, and the age of sexually active participants decreased.  Just reflect on the prevailing attitudes about sexuality in our society during the passing of each decade from the 1950&#8217;s to today.</p>
<p>I also believe that sexual activity has deep and abiding impact on the the human psyche, and the casualness with which sexuality is treated ingnores this impact.  But the impact is there nevertheless.</p>
<p>I know someone who gave into peer pressure to engage in teenage sexual activity.  Now, she is not expected to see her 40th birthday due to complications brougth on by early sexual activity, STDs and Cervical cancer.  So yes, it can have a damaging effect. <img src='http://rosedesrochers.todays-woman.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_cry.gif' alt=':cry:' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Rose DesRochers</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rose DesRochers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Mar 2007 02:43:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Neal, I could not agree with you more. Many professionals have endorsed masturbation as a recommended form of &quot;safe sex.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Neal, I could not agree with you more. Many professionals have endorsed masturbation as a recommended form of &#8220;safe sex.&#8221;</p>
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